CLAIM: Jesus says, “If you love Me, you will keep My commandments” (Jn. 14:15). Jesus refers to his “commands” (Jn. 14:21; 15:10; 15:12, 14, 17) throughout this section of Scripture. Why does Christ speak of his love in such impersonal terms as “keeping commandments”?
RESPONSE: Translators repeatedly use highly impersonal and almost military language for God’s teaching and instructions. This places an impersonal chill on the moral imperatives that Jesus gave to us. For instance, imagine if you told your spouse or friend that you had some “commands” for her to follow, while borrowing your car? This militaristic language just wouldn’t fit the context. But consider John 15:14, where Jesus says, “You are My friends if you do what I command you.” This language doesn’t seem to fit with a close personal relationship.
We have no problem with God issuing commands to us. Bible teachers frequently say that the Ten Commandments were not the Ten Suggestions, and we certainly agree with this. God is sovereign, and he has the authority to issue divine moral imperatives. But is this really the usage Christ had in mind in this passage about his close personal friendship with us (Jn. 15:15)? We think not.
The Greek word for “commands” is entole. According to Kittel, the first usage for entole is “‘To give a commission or direction’ in general, and not specifically in the religious sense.” In extra-biblical Greek, he writes that the term has the sense of “pedagogic instruction” or a “commission.” We feel that modern translators err in translating this word as “commands” in this section. Why not simply translate it as “teaching” or “instructions”? We feel that this would convey the meaning of the word, while also keeping the conception of having a personal relationship with Christ.
 Theological Dictionary of the New Testament, Vols. 5-9 edited by Gerhard Friedrich. Vol. 10 compiled by Ronald Pitkin., ed. Gerhard Kittel, Geoffrey William Bromiley and Gerhard Friedrich, electronic ed., 2:545-546 (Grand Rapids, MI: Eerdmans, 1964-c1976).